for criminals and wanted persons for breaking laws of all sorts. Separated at birth brothers and sisters looking for each other and quite often their parents. Detectives trying to find people and items now in other peoples possession right down to my mother trying to find me when it's time to mow her lawn again (:--).

Due to demand a pile of new people finder services have popped up seemingly overnight and most of them are online. Many of them are people search free type of sites. I'm sure you've seen the banner ads all over the net about finding your high school sweet heart and Mr. or Mrs. popular married the class nerd type ads. Everything from email people finder to business lead searches are being conducted online. There are phone number finders and even address finders.

For those of you looking for love or the partner of your dreams here are some quick simple and common sense dating tips once you've used one of the free people finder services I'll mention later.

1) Write it down. Write down what you want in a life long partner. Basics of looks, hobbies, interests, etc. Simply by knowing what you like and dislike in a mate will immediately boost your confidence and help you to know if a second date is in order or not.

2) Be realistic. Every one has some presumptions about his or her life long partner. A rich, attractive and dynamic individual I'm sure (:--). 2 things to keep in mind about being realistic.

A. If you have high expectations because you’re an exceptional person yourself just keep in mind that the higher your demands are the longer it will probly take to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. Try to find a perfect person for you, instead of a perfect person. There is a big difference between the two and a life long commitment is about the 2 of you becoming the perfect person singular - so just know that your perfect mate may not be there yet but good chance you aren't either. LOL. I'm enjoying writing this article more than I thought.

B. The second thing you should keep in mind is that if you find someone perfect for you, it does not mean that you are also perfect for him or her. Their expectations maybe even higher than yours or they are not interested. Don't take it personally.

3) Clean up your act. Now I'm not advocating that you should not be you. I'm just saying that if you spend a little time preparing to meet someone it will be noticed that you regard them as special enough to prepare. Also, developing your personality and becoming the type of person you want to marry helps to have things in common as well.

4) Get Out There and Meet People. How and where is really up to you, personally I think pubs and nightclubs are horrible but on the other hand, you may like those places. If so, that might work for you but chances are it won't or you wouldn't be still reading this article. You need to go to a place that attracts the kind of people you'd like to meet. A couple places that may be of interest to you are internet dating, social groups, marriage parties, common parks, libraries, book club or sports clubs.

5) Be yourself. There is usually enough pressure put on a person within the first few dates that there is really no need to try and be something you think the other person is looking for. That is called lying and will cause more pain down the road when the person doesn't want to be your friend anymore because you weren't honest and upfront in the first place. So try to relax and have fun.

If you happen to fall into one of the people finder groups and are looking for someone for whatever possible reason here are some tips to find some great services online. Do a Google search in brackets like this "free people finder" or "free people search"
Written by Chad McDonald for the searching community looking online for a people finder service or conducting a keyword seach in quotes on "finder people